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A Guide to Play Gear

Incorporating Play Gear into your relationship is about the eroticism of being under the control of another person or the eroticism of having full control over someone else.

Using Play Gear on any level stimulates the largest sex organ in the body – The Brain.

Before using your Play Gear products it is important to have complete trust in the person you intend to play with.

When you give yourself over to the game you are playing, due to the intensity of emotions and sensations, it can be difficult to communicate how you are feeling. Because of this difficulty, it is essential that everyone agrees on a ‘safety’ word or words before you start.

The safety word is a word that can be used by anyone to stop all activity immediately. The word could be a colour, a TV programme, or complete nonsense such as ‘tartan’.

Avoid using “stop” or “dont” as your safety word, as these words may be part of the game you are playing and can lead to confusion.  Whatever your safety word, it must only be used when you want to stop all activities and return to reality. You may wish to use other safety words to indicate that you would like to:

  1. Stop what you are currently doing, but don’t stop the game;
  2. Increase what you are currently doing;
  3. Maintain what you are currently doing.

Also for safety, do not tie anyone too tight or place in an uncomfortable position. During sexual arousal your body slightly swells, so a tight handcuff or awkward position can soon become painful.

For the novice, bondage can be a quick and inexpensive way to spice up your sex life. Use soft items to bind your lover to avoid chafing and avoid metal cuffs as these can cause bruising very easily.

Of course there is more to using Play Gear than just tying your partner down to the bed. What are you going to do with them now that you have them there? Teasing your partner adds to the excitement.  Enjoy a slow build up that leads to steamy passionate sex.

Playing is also a great excuse to dress up, if you dress sexy, you feel sexy. This could range from a naughty school girl or boy to a submissive slave or bold dominatrix.

Restraints: The feel of leather and the look and smell of it is very sexy. Just be aware that leather collars and cuffs do take some ‘wearing in’ because new leather can be firm. Fabric restraints are very comfortable to wear with padded protection. Quick and easy to use without any damage.  Specialised restraints will place the body in wonderful positions, perfect for oral or penetrative pleasure.

Bondage Tape – Bondage tape is wonderful and looks hot, it sticks to itself but is not sticky, so you can wrap around the body and take it off easily.

Nipple Clamps & Clips – Producing wonderful sensations, nipple restraints are an extra dimension enjoyed by many. For beginners, only purchase clamps with adjustable tension screws. For many players, the enjoyment comes not only from the pressure exerted on the nipples but also from the flood of sensation when the clamp is  released.

Feathers, Whips & Paddles – All of these products can add a fun dimension into playing. Producing great sounds and sensations. Always start softly and gently, and only increasing the intensity in agreement with your partner.

Collars & Cuff Sets – Not only do these collars make the wearer look really hot but they are also very versatile. You can cuff & clip in front or behind or to the bed. Always ensure that the wearer is not in a position that will quickly become uncomfortable.

Common Play Terms:
BDSM: Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism
Bondage: The practice of restraint.
Discipline: The practice of discipline using spanking and whips.
Dominant: The person who is in control of a Submissive.
Submissive, or “sub”: Person that gives up control either all the time or only during a scene.
Switch: Someone who likes being both Dominant and submissive, either in one scene or on different occasions.
Top: Dominant person either all the time or only during a scene.
Bottom: submissive or one who gives up control, or simply one who receives physical sensation from a Top in a scene.
Masochism: Act of receiving pain for sensual/sexual pleasure.
Masochist: Person who enjoys pain, usually sexually.
Sadism: The act of inflicting pain.
Sadist: Person who enjoys inflicting pain, usually sexually.
S&M:  (Sadism & Masochism, or SM, S/M): Used to denote the physical activity of pain given and received.
Fetish: A specific obsession or delight in one object or experience.
Scene: A time period of BDSM activities.
Vanilla: Sexual behaviour which does not encompass BDSM activity. The term is sometimes used in a derogatory sense.

Communication is always the key to great playing. You  may find that is only when try new experiences and begin playing that you will find out what you really like. There are no rules apart from ensuring that play is consensual for all. Enjoy the games…

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Why not…

Why not…Why not…I was a single guy in my mid 30s, and had recently broken up with my girlfriend of the last four years. My libido had always been high, but now it was getting out of hand (pun intended!). I was running around more and more with my pants sticking out in front as if I had a kid’s softball bat in there.
My heart wasn’t yet into finding a new girl because I was still kind of raw from the breakup with Melissa. That didn’t keep me from needing sex, though. That night I had just dined at a Mexican restaurant near city-center, and was driving home, wishing for some kind of interesting diversion.
On the way, I noticed an seedy adult arcade that I’d seen several times but never visited. They were advertising that you could watch a selection of hard-core videos in the privacy of your own booth. I am not into porn, the fake chicks and tits do my head in, but tonight, that sounded better than just going home and wanking off, and I was in no mood for a bar.
I was thinking to myself, “What the Hell?” and turned in. Feeling nervous, but already getting horny, I had to rearrange old “Cliff” in my pants to minimize my own “show” before I went in.
I walked in bravely, as if I knew what I was doing. I browsed around the books and videos for a while, the explicit pictures and words making me harder all the time. My right hand slipped into my pocket so I could press and squeeze my nearly seven-inch, circumcised pride and joy without being too obvious about it. Paranoid? Naaah. But the good smoke was making my body more sensitive than usual — especially my cock.
I noticed that most people there were guys, but there were a couple of attractive women, too. That surprised and excited me, even though they were with their guys. It was just sexy and exciting to think that some women enjoyed this, too.
Sooner or later, everyone seemed to gravitate to the arcade. I watched a few get tokens at the counter before they went in. “Time for action,” I thought to myself, so I went over and got ten bucks’ worth, wondering if that would be enough. I figured it would, since I was already so damned horny.
I sauntered over to the arcade trying to look as casual as I could. Yeah, right! Like no one was going to know I was about to go into a booth and masturbate my hot rod to a roaring climax, or maybe two. Like anyone even cared. They were all there for the same reason: to get their nuts off.
I entered through a hallway where the movies were advertised with colorful empty video cartons displayed in a glass case built into the wall. The pictures of women were all great, and the men all well hung. Although I’m not gay, like most guys I admire handsome cocks when I see ‘em. And, a couple times in my life I had taken advantage of opportunities to fool around with a guy. Anyway, a sign explained that the number on each carton was the channel on which that video appeared.
As I scoped out the triple-X action on the cartons, Cliff was starting to ooze right through my shorts onto my pants. I knew I had to get some relief or my pants would have big spots all over the front. So, I walked on into the arcade’s long, very dim hallway, which was lined with a series of doors. Some were ajar, and I chose one of those and entered the little booth.
There was a very low-wattage light bulb that was on but there was a switch if you wanted to turn it off. I checked where to drop the coins and where the seat was, latched the door, and fed a handful of tokens into the machine. The video snow changed immediately to a clear picture of a couple fucking. My face got all hot and flushed — aided by the fine weed, no doubt — as I watched for a minute before turning off the light and sitting down in the plastic chair. Then I flicked through the channels until I found a video I liked better.
It showed a very pretty, golden-haired girl spread on the edge of a hot tub moaning as her guy was licking her clit, rubbing her belly and squeezing her butt. “Ah, yess,” I sighed as I dropped my pants and pulled my big woody out through the opening in my shorts. I let my full balls hang over the bottom of the fly of my shorts. I liked that because it put pressure on the bottom of my balls, which always intensified the pleasure of masturbation. I started stroking him up and down as I stared at the action onscreen.
The woman in the video was still moaning and sighing as I stroked myself, getting wetter and wetter with my lube juices; but soon my stoned brain realized that I was hearing more than one set of feminine moans and sighs. At first I was too busy getting into the slippery feel of my fist on my leaky cock to pay much attention, but after a few minutes it got through to me that the sound seemed to be coming from next door. I looked around the booth to see why those moans were so clear.
For the first time I saw an opening in the side wall, about six inches square. “Ah Ha!” I thought. Bending a little, I looked through the hole into the adjoining booth. The light from the screen there let me see the bare round bottom of what I was sure was a woman moving back and forth a little. Cliff jerked up even higher at the thought of a fine naked female ass right there in front of my eyes… Cliff’s way of saying, “Yummmmm, gimme some of that!”
As I looked more closely, I saw she was giving head to the proud cock of a guy seated on a bench in front of her, just like the bench in my booth. My hand squeezed my meat harder as I watched and pumped back and forth along the length of him a few times. Watching this action, I suddenly was hotter than I could remember ever being. I was breathing hard, and felt like I could tear down that damned wall.
I let out a husky groan. My fellating neighbor must have heard me through the opening. She glanced my way, then moved her bottom over to the opening I was gazing through and shook her cute little ass almost in my face. I took that to mean she wanted some attention, so I reached through and palmed her fine butt, which had the effect of causing her to sung up against my hand in pleasure and breathe a soft, “Oh, yessss, baby!” But it was loud enough for me to hear and the acknowledgment from her only made me squirt more lube.
Encouraged, I moved my hand all over her round ass and up and down the crevice between those globes, then down lower between her cheeks to her pussy. My middle finger extended under her looking for her slit. I found it and slid my finger back and forth along her lips.
She was sopping wet, and spread herself for me by squatting down a bit and pushing back even more. That let me slip my finger into her fairly deep, then I added a second finger, eliciting an, “UmmmmmmMMM!” from her stuffed mouth. Her pussy was very snug, even with all her squishy juice, and there was indeed lots of that.
At that instant, I would have given the world to get Cliff inside this hot and sexy girl’s inviting box. As if she could read my emotions, she pressed her butt firmly back against the wall, my fingers still inside her. She bent down further over the cock she was sucking, trying to raise her ass and cunt to a position where I could fuck her. I quickly got the idea — Hell, I’m no dummy!   and stood up, pointed my raging erection through the opening and rubbed it around slickly on her bottom.
We were both hot for each other and we adjusted our stances so that my helmeted glans — which felt like it was about to burst — soon found her slit and slipped inside her one or two inches. God, but she felt like liquid fire in there, and I was mad to plunge myself into her all the way.
But the damned wall, although only a couple inches or so thick, limited how deep I could get Cliff into her. I raised up on my toes and pressed my belly tight against the wall to get as far up her pussy as I could, straining my loins forward to the max. I got maybe three inches into her then, and just did those little “almost movements” inside her, concentrating on expanding and compressing my cock by my squeezing butt and pumping blood into Cliff.
She started contracting and releasing the muscles inside her pussy around me. She was very good at it, because those soft, hot folds lining her sweet hot cunt massaged my meat better than any hand ever could. She was about to suck the cum right out of me with her convulsive squeezing, even with such a shallow penetration. I whispered, “Let me come over there.”
But she said, “No,” and then, suddenly, she pulled away from my cock, leaving Cliff jerking in thin air. “Nooooo,” I moaned. “Please, noooo, baby.”
But almost immediately, I felt heat and wetness on my shaft again, this time deeper, and with the distinctive roughness of a tongue on the Oh-so-damned-sensitive underside of my helmet-glans. She seemed to like that — natural, I guess, since I have a bulbous, well- defined helmet with a wide glans, just made for a woman’s mouth to enjoy in several ways, as well as being perfect for scraping the sidewalls of a pussy on the outward stroke.
“God have mercy,” I thought. “She’s going down on me, now.” With her mouth, she could suck me more deeply than with her pussy in this awkward through-the-wall arrangement. I felt like I had smoked about a quarter-pound of hash and had gone to paradise like one of the characters from the Arabian Nights. From her back-and- forth movements and little grunts, I was sure she was being fucked from behind by her partner. That thought made it even hotter.
Pressed up against that wall, moaning, lost in pleasure, my prick inside her soft, sweet, fiery mouth, I felt my cum rising and whispered loudly to her, “I’m gonna cum, girl,” thinking maybe she’d pull off. Instead, she mumbled what I took for an okay, not stopping her action but increasing her suction. Then I lost it, squirting four or five long streams of my overheated cream into her waiting throat. She obviously wanted it, loved it, even.
She didn’t hesitate, but took it all and sucked even harder until I was drained and ready to collapse. That climax had felt like a fire hose squirting, and if anything was left she sucked the last drop from me. Only then did she let me go, making a kissy-slurpy sound as Cliff slipped from her still-sucking mouth.
I bent and could only whisper a husky, “God, thank you, girl … that was the best I ever had,” through theopening. Her hand brushed my cheek as if to say, “You’re welcome,” and I took that soft hand and kissed it with as much passion as I could muster in my weak state.
Then, she disappeared from my view as the three of us made ourselves presentable to the real world again. I just sat there for a few minutes, getting my breath and regaining my strength, letting my overstrained leg and stomach muscles recover. Then I opened the door and went out. I noticed they hadn’t left their booth yet, so I hung around the hallway where they would have to pass, hoping to catch a glance of her in the light.
Then I saw them, and my heart did a quick jump. She was a real beauty, dark haired, short, big eyes, a cute nose, and a very nice mouth (I should have known that,right?)
Her body was obviously as good above as I knew it was below; she was well built, tits not too big but that’s the way I like ‘em, and a nice little bubble butt that I adored. I didn’t even notice him, my eyes were so full of her. As she passed, she looked at me and smiled. I wondered if she knew that I was the guy she had just blown so wonderfully. A small smile passed between us, hinting that she did, and then they left.
I can tell you that she gave me the best blowjob of my life (so far, anyway), and she was one of only two women in whose mouths I was ever able to ejaculate– and the other one I had to work hard at to make that happen.
Back to the story, I didn’t want them to think I was stalking them, so I waited a few minutes, then started to leave. As I passed the counter, the clerk said, “Hey, man, the little dark-haired lady who just left asked me to give this to the guy with the yellow shirton your way out. You see any other yellow shirts back there?”
“Nope,” I replied, taking the offered card. There was a phone number written on it. I could only guess what that number might lead to. Would I call it? What do youthink? I’m not stupid, after all.
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Introducing Pleaser Red Label, Footwear designed to fit a wider foot.

Pleaser have introduced a new range of items to fit alongside the regular GOLD label items, These styles are designed with a wider foot base for a roomier fit, for those with a wider foot.

If you want to see the range, please download the files below.

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Same Day – Evening Delivery


Are you sick of waiting for Deliveries? Are you wanting your items Tonight? Well you may be in luck today.

We are expecting to start this service for Christchurch from Monday 13th September 2021.

We will be starting a Same Day – Evening delivery service, this will offer delivery of your items between the Hours of 6PM and 9PM Monday to Saturday.

Your orders will need to be in before 11:30AM daily, contain only (In-Stock) Items, and must be delivered to Residential Addresses inside one of the delivery areas we currentlly offer the service too. This is based on Post Code, so if your Post Code is available to recieve this service it will become available in the checkout process. Order must be made prior to 11:30am and payment bust be Cleared if Bank Deposit for it to go out in time for the courier pickup. Other payment options such as Zip, Laybuy, Credit Card, Paypal and Poli provide us with a Payment Confirmation so orders with these payment options are deemed cleared upon Order Confirmation.

Presently available only in Christchurch.

This option is a premium service and therefore the FREE SHIPPING option will not include the Same Day – Evening Service.

To receive this service you must select the Same Day – Evening Service option during checkout.

Currently the price to receive the Same Day service is as follows:

Christchurch $16.00

This service is convenient if you want your item delivered the same day at a convenient time. Limited amount of deliveries available each day, so be quick.

Service Standard : Items will be delivered between 6.00pm to 9.00pm the same evening as the order.

Christchurch Delivery area for Same Day – Evening delivery is as below.

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Footwear Promotion, 20% Cashback till 30th September 2021

Our previous cashback promo was rather successful and we believe that this is a good way to warm up winter.

With brands such as Pleaser, Demonia, Fabulicious and more.

This offer is available for all footwear purchased before 30th September 2021, either in stock, or backordered items.

Just simply purchase footwear and you will receive a store credit coupon of 20% value of the footwear purchase price. Coupon will be emailed manually within 48 hours of purchase.

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COVID 19 UPDATE – LEVEL 4 Lockdown

As you will all probably be aware now that NZ is going back to a Level 4 Lockdown.

As we were deemed as an essential business during the previous Level 4 arrangement we will be continuing to operate as per normal throughout this process.

There will be a few changes, ALL PARTIES HAVE BEEN SUSPENDED till Monday 23rd August 2021 at this point, And Monday 30th August 2021 for Auckland Parties.

As there are some restrictions in play we suspect that there will be some delays to shipments, with our courier partners. We will work towards reducing impacts where possible.

We will post any updates here as they come to light.

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